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Speeding.

March 15, 2012

Yesterday as I was on my way to have a coaching session with the incomparable Frank Gjata I got pulled over.

“FOLLOWING OUR BLISS IS THE DESTINATION.”

– Frank Gjata

The cop didn’t like that when I told him that was my destination and thus explained why I had been speeding.

Where you going? Bliss! I’m in a hurry to get there, Officer. Please!

Ok, I didn’t really say that. I did beg and cry. A lot. It didn’t work. I got the speeding ticket.

Frank offers what he calls “Life Changing Moments” Sessions.

Imagine the irony that I am on my way to my very own life changing moment sesh and I get pulled over by a cop on a bike. It felt ironic to me.

Why?

Because I got the metaphor before Frank and I even began to dive into it.

Frank is the creator of Conscious Ink and Manifestation Tattoos and I am surprised he hasn’t come up with one yet that says “You are going past the speed limit.”

(Frank read: please create that tattoo, my friend?)

I am always speeding. It’s true.

Just look at my Facebook. Or Twitter. I am always getting asked “How do you do all you do? How do you keep up?”

A secret? I don’t!

I miss appointments and I forget. I double book. I get speeding tickets. Doh!

Yesterday’s ticket came at a perfect time. A life changing moment ( thanks Frank). Last week, one of my dearest friends, Steve Bridges passed away, as you may have read in earlier posts, and it was like a bucket of ice cold water poured over the body of my life.

I got very cold and very awake and very alive.

I also realized I no longer wanted to speed through.

Well, apparently I didn’t realize it fully because yesterday’s ticket was a gentle reminder that I had not committed to slowing the f*ck down.

I have committed to slowing down but I have not yet committed to giving up cursing. (Sorry folks with sensitive ears.)

I made some huge shifts yesterday which I am still processing but I will say this: I needed to get that ticket. I need to frame it and use it as a reminder that I can take my time. That I can breathe. That I can be present.

There it is.

Be present.

Frank asked me a question no one has ever asked me before.

In case you didn’t know I have profound hearing loss.

He asked me what part of my “not being able to hear” keeps me “from not being here”?

I wanted to leave when he asked me this. I had a realization that for as much as I talk about vulnerability, I didn’t like to be vulnerable. Damn you, Frank!

Yet I stayed. I won’t share all that we talked about but I will share that I think you need to get your arse over to see him. (Please do not speed.)

I will share that yes, yes it was a life changing moment and like his tattoo says that I wear on my forearm: There are no accidents.

Speeding ticket an accident? Nah.

A gentle reminder that I deserve to be fully here and that I am doing a disservice to others otherwise? Pretty much.

Is the ticket annoying and a waste of money? Maybe.

But maybe not.

Maybe, if I really follow-through on my break-through I will realize that although it cost me $400 or whatever a speeding ticket goes for these days, it will have gained me my life.

I may not be able to hear perfectly but I can be here perfectly.

Thank you Frank.

***So here is my question for YOU: Where, in your own life, can you stop speeding?***
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  • Reply jamesvincentknowles March 15, 2012 at 11:47 am

    my favorite mantras:

    1. If it flows, it goes.
    2. Slow down, you’re get there faster.
    3. The present is a gift to my self.

    “Hear, here” . . . cheers~!

    • Reply ManifestYogaJen March 15, 2012 at 1:58 pm

      james, we gotta get you some manifestation tats from Frank!

  • Reply Dottie Wagner March 15, 2012 at 12:13 pm

    Love this!!! It is always good to slow down.

  • Reply lara March 15, 2012 at 12:19 pm

    love your writing- as usual, funny and profound.
    ox

  • Reply Katherine L. Garcia March 15, 2012 at 12:43 pm

    I had the pleasure of meeting Frank a couple of weeks ago in the parking lot of Yoga Works. I was in desperate need of my tattoo fix. Let me tell you, this guy is filled with good vibes.

    This post is a reminder to fully take time to take the wisdom in. Sometimes, life experiences shows us a lesson and we fail to pay attention. So the universe presents the lesson in a new, refreshing way. In your case, the lesson showed up in a $400 bill.

    So this post, to me, is a reminder to listen. To pay close attention to the whispers of life, guiding you on this beautiful path we call life. We live in a learning planet, lets be the noble students.

    With love, always.

    • Reply ManifestYogaJen March 15, 2012 at 1:58 pm

      he is a love, as are you.

    • Reply Frank Gjata March 15, 2012 at 2:11 pm

      Hi Katherine! I love your notion of a “learning planet”…school is, indeed, always in session. May as well have a good time in class 🙂

      Frank

  • Reply Kario March 15, 2012 at 5:51 pm

    I did an experiment a few months ago where I stopped all multitasking in an effort to become more present and aware. Yikes! I discovered that so many of my notions of multitasking as a way to be faster and more efficient actually slowed me down and made me feel more frantic. They also serve as a way to distract me from the things that make me uncomfortable. Huh. I’d like to say all of those profound lessons keep me from multitasking anymore, but I’d be lying. I think it will take a few more “speeding tickets” to have it sink in, but I consider this post one of them. Thanks!

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